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Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, June 15, 2015

Habits of Financially Successful People

I came across this article about rich vs poor habits and found it very interesting.  Some points that I gleaned were that I should watch less TV or spend less time on the Internet (use my time more productively), read more (learn continuously), don't play the lottery (recognize that making money is not magical and does not depend on luck), and keep in touch with people more (network throughout my life as part of my lifestyle/habits). 
I also liked the point about teaching children to make To Do lists and to aim to have those lists 70% complete each day.  I like To Do lists and tend to be more productive when I have them to look at everytime I get bored or run out of things to do.  Daily To Do lists that have to be 70% complete each day is a new thing.  I decided to give it a try and, voila!, it is pretty cool. 
Not only did a get a whole lot more in one day than I usually do, I felt pushed to do more than I usually do because I have a 70% completion goal for each day.  I found that I could not meet this easily, so I might have to fill the daily To Do lists with more tasks that can be done in one day.  Perhaps I could make a separate To Do list with items that can be completed in a longer time frame? 
Anyways, it's something to think about.  The weather is really turning pleasant and the garden here looks fantastic.  I included some pictures so you can see what's been inspiring me lately. 
I can't get over how cool it is that this hydrangea bush is a whole kaleidoscope of colours!  It's so pretty! 
I popped into Home Depot today and picked up some pink begonias too.  I wonder what that financial guy would think of spending time on gardening.  Life's not just about making money though; you have to live and enjoy it too!  

If you're looking for some inspirational literature on habits of successful people, here are a few popular ones.
  
Have a great week!
xoxo

Sunday, October 19, 2014

Harry Pogger vs the Hedgehog Dementors

After four night shifts, my mind shifted back from work-work-work to Poggles.  I had hoped to pick up a new baby hedgehog this Sunday, but soon realized I was not really in the right mind set to get a new baby yet.  I still missed Poggles too much.

Instead, my hunny took me out for coffee and pastries, we strolled around the markets, and we hunted for Halloween pumpkins.  He picked three perfect pumpkins and I chose one demented one.  I imagined turning its hideous-ness into some kind of amazing art piece, but had to admit afterwards that the pumpkin (unfortunately) looked like a large orange butt.  C'est la vie.

Today, I curled into bed and read books.  It was very comfy and comforting.  I also painted this picture of Harry Pogger.  He is fighting plump hedgehog-shaped dementors.  My hunny says the dementors need scarier, longer arms, but I like them short and chubby as is.  Sort of cuter... in a dementor sort of way.

My friend came by and gave me a lovely card wishing me to feel better soon.  She also gave me a cute hedgehog ornament that reminded her of Poggles.  She even drew in a V where Poggles used to have two white quills that formed a V-shape.  I thought that was really sweet of her.  It really brought a smile to my day.

I hope you are having a good weekend  :)

xoxo

Friday, October 3, 2014

Here Lies Poggy

Today marks the end of three and a half beautiful years with Poggles.  He passed away early morning. 
 He did not heal properly after the foot injury and the wound kept getting worse.  Despite our best efforts, he was suffering.  He could not walk anymore, he was weak, and he lost weight.  I fed him with a spoon for his last two days and he ate readily.  I had hope that he would recover.  
 Last night he appeared to be in pain or to be having seizures.  I gave him one last dose of pain medication and he settled down.  He licked towards me over and over again like he was thankful or giving me kisses and then settled down looking at me from the opening in his pouch.  
This morning, he was still in the same position looking out.  He didn't answer when I called.  He wasn't alive anymore.  I cried and cried all day long and wondered about all the things I might have done for him to save him.  
In the end, I am just thankful that he waited for me and that I was with him in his last moments.  He was a very good hedgehog and the best study buddy ever.  He was a great source of comfort to me all throughout nursing school.  
I wrapped him in thick paper towel and made him a nice biodegradable coffin out of layers of newspaper.  
Coincidentally, it says, "above & beyond" on the lid.  I thought that was kind of nice.  Like he's gone to heaven or somewhere in the sky.  I can't explain the red seedless grapes though.
We buried him in a lovely plot of the garden where English Mint and Lemon Balm grows.  I think he would have liked the smell.  My sweetheart sang a song and I said a speech for him.  We gathered little flowers from my garden and put them all about his grave.
Rest in peace, my little hedgehog.  I will love you and miss you always.  You will forever be in my heart.  Good bye, Master Pogglebee.

Saturday, October 20, 2012

Just Like Wonder Woman

A friend of mine posted this on Facebook today and I wanted to share it with you.  It brought tears to my eyes.

I hope people will remember that what they say really does make a difference, whether it be words that encourage and respect someone or words that tear a person's self esteem down and make them cry.

The Internet is still abuzz with good words and bad words about this girl.  While the bad words still make me feel sad (and sometimes lose hope in humanity), I am thankful and warmed by the people that have come together to honour this girl and to remember that she was one of us.

Have a great weekend.

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Somewhere Over The Rainbow In Hawaii - My Trip in Photos

I'm back from my very first trip to Hawaii.  What a beautiful place!  I hope I'll get the chance to go there again one day.  Here is my trip in photos to share with you!
As the plane approached Hawaii, the skies were vivid blue with fluffy white clouds.  A far cry from the grey, rainy city I had left behind.
The clouds cast shadows on the blue waters.  I found it neat to see the clouds from above instead of below. Airplanes are a marvel to me.
Thanks to a three hour time difference, we gained three hours on arrival.  Sweet!  A full day to spend exploring Hawaii.  We were greeted with marvelously fragrant leis made from tuberoses.  
We came to recognize this fragrance as a way to identify newcomers at the hotel.  You could smell the newcomers from a mile away and they smelled sooooo gooood!  :P  For days after, the hotel room smelled fantastic. We put one lei beside the shower and one in the bedroom.  I was sad when they finally wilted, leaving a light, lingering fragrance.  I wanted to dash out and buy a new one!
The beaches looked amazing.  The waters were so blue and the waves so... alive!  They would crash onto the white sands and soak you, throwing interesting coral bits and stones your way.  Sometimes I would see a  shell, but before I could grab it, the waves would literally suck them away out of my reach.  So fast!
Children played in the shallow waves at the beach front and surfers played in the bigger waves farther out.
Here's an interesting beach thing I found.  Is it coral?  I liked the orange colour and the texture. 
 I made myself a little collection on the sand.  I'd run about the waves, collect bits and things, run back to deposit them on the sand wall my hunnie built as he baked in the sand, and run back to the ocean to find more.  It was fun. Once in a while, a big wave would come up and take the sea things back.
There were pretty seaweeds along the water edge.
 I saw some sea creatures as well like fishes in the water and crabs.  I also saw a funny looking spotted fish thing.  I didn't get a good picture though.  The ocean sucked it back too fast. 
This is overlooking some coral reefs.  There are a lot of people with scuba masks padding around here. 
I didn't get to swim here, but maybe I'll do that if I ever go back one day.
 
We visited a Japanese temple and there were sooo many koi!  Here they are in a feed frenzy as I throw them some food.
This dove looks like he's enjoying the fish too.  It looks like he wants to eat the fish, but really he just wants to eat the fish food.
 See?  Tasty, tasty!
 Plants that I've only ever seen in the middle of malls or in the tropical section of Home Depot grow wild here.    It's weird seeing tropical house plants grow so lush here. 
 On Lei Day (May 1st) our hotel had tables set up with piles of local flowers and greenery.  A volunteer showed me how to make this pretty corsage.  It smelled great (most of the flowers in Hawaii seem to smell good).  The lady who sat beside me turned out to be a florist from Canada, and she was commenting how expensive it would be to make something like this in Canada because fresh tropical flowers cost a lot to ship over.
I also made this orchid and plumeria lei.  When I considered how each orchid plant costs about $30 at Home Depot and how I had just used over 60 blooms to make this lei... yup, it would be costly to do this in Canada.  In Hawaii, you can buy a lei for $5 or make it for free (like I did!). It makes me want to run out and buy/make a gazillion leis each day while I'm in Hawaii. 
 We visited the Pearl Harbor Memorial.  It's a beautiful but somber place.  Black dots of oil still leak from the ship sunken below and they call them black tears.  Thousands of soldiers are still buried with the ship because it was impossible to get them out without making the ship explode.  

The driver told us about how his relatives cried one day a month after the ship was sunk.  The divers had discovered that they could still hear knocking coming from the ship.  People were still alive in the ship, but there was no way to get them out.  I can't imagine the horror of waiting to die in this ship when it's so close to the surface of the water.  There were thousands of people on that ship.  So the memorial remembers and respects those that were sacrificed for the sake of their country. 
I was pretty depressed after thinking about all those people trapped below the memorial, but the people of Hawaii are generous and kind.  They treat you like family, and they feed you like family.  We went to Ono's Hawaiian Foods.  It's just a little hole in the wall place, but the food is delicious.
They make an amazing dish called Lau Lau.  It's chicken or pork wrapped in taro leaves and steamed.  It doesn't look like much, but it tastes soooo gooood.  I don't know why we don't eat taro leaves.  They're so yummy!
I also liked the Lomi Lomi Salmon.  It's very refreshing.  I loved the Kalau pork too.  I found the taste was very good.  If you go to Oahu, you should check out this restaurant.  Don't expect stellar service and expect a hole in the wall, but the food will be tastier than the fancy luaus you go to (we went to both the luau at the Polynesian cultural center and the one at Paradise Cove.  The food at Ono's is tastier.)  Oh, and for $20 for a set meal for two people, it's a seriously good deal!

It was good enough that we went back on our last day.  Back for Ono's and back for Leonard's fresh malasadas (donuts).  My favourite was the hot macadamia filled version.  Yummmmm!
 As a random photo, check out the price of milk here!  $10 for 4 liters, and that's on sale!  The driver joked that it was because there's only one cow on the island  :)
Our trip was winding down.  We had learned so much about a different culture, a different lifestyle, and we loved it.  Hawaii is a mixing pot of different people from all over the world.  As a result, the Hawaiians we met treated us like family, what they call "Ohana".  They call you their cousins when they greet you, much like we call people "brothers", "brotha", or "buddy" around here. 

This is not to say that everything is perfect.  We saw a different side of their city while we were there too.  We saw an old man (homeless?) walking around drunk with poop coming out of the top of his pants.  Another man came and saw him and told him to stay there so he could go get help.  Unfortunately, while he was gone getting help, the old man found a $20 in his pocket.  His eyes glowed with delight and he stumbled away into the nearest liquor store.  It reminded me of downtown Vancouver.

As we walked along Kapahulu, we saw a man who looked utterly depressed and hopeless.  He had his head down like Eeyore and his shoulders were slumped.  He was the saddest man I had ever seen.  The image was a stark contrast to the tourist areas I had come from, and the image of happiness and perfection that they talked about.   
I walked the beach for the last time, and I looked at the little bird foot prints in the sand.  Pigeons in Hawaii are white and they are everywhere.  They're even in many restaurants because most building are open to air.
Most of Hawaii is dependent on tourism now.  Plantations like the Dole plantation have shrunken down to a small fraction of their original size.  I saw mango trees everywhere with juicy fruit hanging down, and yet when I went to buy mangos at ABC stores the mangos were from Mexico.  I didn't know what to think.  It  didn't seem right.

One day, I'll go back to Hawaii and eat a ripe mango fresh from the tree.  I think that will be a very nice day indeed.

Have a wonderful day, and remember to enjoy your life.  Life is short, and there are so many beautiful and wonderful things in this world to experience.  You should go try them  :)

Take care~!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Reflections On The First Semester of Nursing School

Recharging

I slept in today and woke up very late. Then I laid in bed and did nothing for a bit before stretching and then rolling over to lie on my side for a bit longer. I did some thinking, rolled some ideas in my head, and finally eased out of bed. It was really nice!

Cleaning The House

After that, it was a productive day of washing windows and horizontal blinds. The dirt really builds up in one year because of all the pollution of being near the highway. After washing 6 big windows and blinds, I took a shower and headed out for some Christmas shopping.

Fighting Germs

I think I'm coming down with a bug since my skin hurts and my tummy has a dull ache that doesn't go away. Sometimes the ache is in the front, and sometimes the ache is in the back. It's very odd. I've had it since sometime during the exams.

I tried to look it up to see if I could figure out what it might be, but scary diseases and illnesses come up, so I decided to stop looking so that I won't become a hypochondriac that thinks I have every disease in the world. I'll just pop in to see the doctor when she gets back from vacation. I have a feeling it's just stress-related.

Grades

The grades came out for all my courses and I actually did really well this semester. I had told myself that it wasn't realistic to get great grades for first semester, but I ended up getting them anyways. It was such a huge relief for me when I saw them. I was really worried that I had bombed the final for one course, but it was A-okay.

By tomorrow we'll find out which hospital we'll be assigned to for next semester. I'm hoping for the hospital nearest to me since it will be easier to get there for 6:30 am start times.

Classmates

While Christmas shopping, I've bumped into a couple classmates. We always rush to ask if the other person passed all their exams and whether they'll be moving on to second semester. The relief is mutual when we've both confirmed that all is well and that we'll be seeing each other again in January. I feel like my classmates and I have been through a lot together. It binds us together even for the students that I didn't interact much with during the semester. I don't think that some of my friends really understand that about me yet. However, I feel like my family understands. My family has been really supportive this semester and I'm really thankful for that.

Worries

Sometimes I feel really scared about becoming a nurse. I walked away from a good job with good co-workers, and I think that being a nurse will be much harder than being an animator. I have had almost 5 years of being an animator, but I have only 1 semester's worth of training as a nurse. I worry that I'll make a mistake and that people will get hurt, and I worry that I don't have what it takes to be a nurse. However, if grades in school are any form of indicator (and I don't think they are, but I'll just pretend they are so that I feel better), then I am unnecessarily worried. I freaked out all semester and I probably made myself sick because of it, but the grades are excellent.

Plans for Semester Two

So, my plan for second semester is to work hard, stay focused, but to also worry less. I am growing more certain that I can do this and that I can handle it, and I have to hold on to that because I can't keep being so stressed all of the time. It's not healthy, and it's not beneficial. I need to exercise more so that I am physically fit and able to handle the hard work of being a nurse, and I need to learn to relax and just drop the stresses because it will make me more efficient and effective.

Even talking about that now makes me feel a little better.

Thanks for sticking around as I work through all the challenges of making a career switch. It's nice to know that I come here and write about it. Hopefully, this can help someone else out there who might be thinking of making a similar change in careers (or of becoming a nurse!)

Have a great week!
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